Friday, 19 August 2011
It's time to get R-E-A-L!!!!!
I've been thinking alot about my (old)BFF.....we've been friends for quite awhile and we used to do alot together and talk to each other.....but lately???? Nothing. When we do talk (which is so very rare), there just isn't anything to talk about. I mean, she's a great person, but I'm finding that she's become a little "snobby". She travels all over with her hubby, which is great...and she has a killer body that she works really hard on, which is also great, but she's sooooo judgemental about others. She picks apart what people wear, or how big they got while pregnant....(not cool.......your bringing another life into the world.) I jsut don't feel that we have anything in common anymore. I don't think she's ever ONCE made me a prioroty...even when I was going through the worst of the worst. Isn't that what true friends do?!?!?!
Maybe I'm wrong, or maybe I'm the one who has changed...o.k...I know I've changed, but for the better!!! I used to be a more selfish person, but not any longer. Life is way to short to be that way!!! I'm just not sure if it's worth remaining friends anymore. I want to be around positive people...people who won't be looking at my muffin-top with disgust!!!!! I don't know what to do. Guess I'll ponder it for a bit longer and hopefully figure it out.
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It is hard. My bff and I kind of went through the same phase. I didn't precisely break things off with her. I just didn't make any effort to call or contact her. It took almost 6 years but recently she contacted me and we are slowly getting back into our groove. I think she is finally catching up with where I'm at. I think it is important to know which friends to keep and which ones to lose. Negativity is catching.
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